One thing that I have learned in life is that at least once (hopefully, only once) someone that you love and put your trust in will hurt you. Now, they may not have meant to hurt you, or they may have, but they will. That someone will take who you are and rip it into tiny little pieces that scatter all over the place and most times they won’t even watch where those pieces have fallen. You will feel as though your world has collapsed and a lot of times you will wonder if you’ll ever be able to find all those pieces and put them back together. But you won’t, because you’ll never be the same, never, you will pick up all the pieces that you can, through in some wisdom, hurt and love and create a new you. You won’t be the same, but that doesn’t mean that you aren’t just as amazing. You will think different, guard your heart more, but be wiser and older and in the process learn a lot about yourself. Don’t think it will be easy, because it won’t, there’s the mourning of who you were that is no longer the mourning of who you thought the other person was, that they are not. But you will get through it. Because through that breakdown you have and through the rebuilding process, you’ll learn so much about yourself that you never even realized, you’re strong and you are so much stronger than you thought.
You will also come to realise that no matter how hard someone may try and destroy you, that you will conquer them, you will rise out of those ashes like a phoenix – with a new view, a new you and you will go on to create an amazing life for yourself. You just need to believe in yourself.