Have you ever been in a situation where you just seem to be going round and round and not getting anywhere with a person?  It doesn’t matter what you do or say, nothing will change their mind or opinion?

What you have to remember is that you have no control over another person – what you have to do is change the way that you think. 

For instance, if you’re around a negative person and you just can’t get away from them, for instance, at work, don’t play into their negativity, stay positive, if they throw a negative comment at you, give a positive one back – you’ll feel better because you are starting to feel more positive every time you say a positive thing.

In the end they will just stop with the comments because of your positive attitude or you may rub off on them and they will start being positive.

But remember, you just need to focus on your thoughts and how you react to things and leave everyone else to their own thoughts and how they react to things.

I believe it isn’t my job to change people to my way of thinking, it’s my job to be positive and happy and enjoy my life in whatever stages it is in and that will hopefully, rub off on people and give them a different perspective on their own lives.