There is never a ‘right’ moment – what I mean when I say that is if, for instance you are wanting to start a family but waiting for the ‘right time’ or to have ‘enough money’, or maybe you are wanting to leave a relationship or end a friendship, again, there will never be a ‘right time’ to do this. Something will always crop up that will give you an excuse to delay the inevitable.  Because, let’s face it we can always find an excuse in just about anything!  Sometimes we use excuses to delay what we want to do, because we don’t want to hurt others, but again, when we finally make that decision, won’t it still hurt them?

Sometimes those decisions just have to be made and acted on and sometimes swiftly is the way to do it – you don’t amputate a leg a little bit at a time over a period of a year do you?  Just make the decision, which in itself is sometimes the hardest thing to do, and then don’t let the excuses stop you if it’s something that you really want to do.  Sometimes our decisions hurt people, but that doesn’t mean we are intentionally going out of our way to hurt others, it’s just part of the process of us being ourselves, no different to when others hurt you.

So, if you’ve got some tough decisions, set a date and don’t talk yourself out of it!!